How can I better my relationship with my family?

My family is the same way. . . i just bluntly ignore them all the time and pretend that i pay attention and i do as they want me to do. One day i know that i will have nothing to do with them when im older because they abuse me so i despise them, they lose a daughter because its their fault they didn't spend time with them when they needed them the most that people like me only have some friends to talk to. If your family is that important, ask them to just take family counseling and if the therapy doesn't work then they don't have to go to it anymore and open up how you feel to them. Hope i helped. . .