Saturday, August 13, 2011

This girl is obsessed with me! what should i do?

I once was in a situation similar to yours. We were going to 9th grade. I know being straightforward won't work; you're right there will be drama. You need to wean her off of you. When she wants to hang out with you tell her you already have plans. If you say you are going to be with friends she may ask to tag along. Try telling her that one of your friends parents is taking you to a movie and it would be rude to bring someone they don't even know. You can think of other excuses. This may seem wrong but if you are gentle and take your time, slowly spending less and less time with her she will eventually get the hint that you two aren't best buddies anymore. Don't make fun of her in front of your new friends or to anyone else. Just say you two aren't as close anymore. When she asks you if you're mad at her just tell her you're not that you've just been busy. If you see each other just act casually like you would with an acquaintance. Because I ume that is all you want her to be. Good Luck.

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